I am currently retired after working for 34 years with the NHS at Central Middlesex Hospital as a phlebotomist and in admin.
I was not retired for long, when in 2023 I jumped at the opportunity to become a ‘Butterfly’ volunteer at Northwick Park Hospital, providing end of life care to patients. I have always wanted to give back to the dying, something I have been conscious of since my sister passed away 25 years ago at the age of 38. The work is mentally exhausting but so rewarding. I sit with the patients, talk, play music, sing and give them hand massages to help their tired muscles. I believe they are aware of my company. I feel privileged to be able to help the exhausted families, giving them some respite. In 2024, our volunteer team won the Beryl Carr Volunteer of the Year Award for our efforts in this end-of-life care. I married at 16 and migrated from Tanzania to London, not being able to complete any further education. I always wanted to work in the medical field and the lack of a degree did not stop me. I have always ensured I am learning, growing and giving back. There is no end to my love for caring and giving to others. I lived in a joint family until I was 50, through which I acquired strong caring and sharing skills. I cared for my mother-in-law who was bed bound on top of three children.
